10 Things That Help Me to Thrive During the Winter Instead of just Surviving the Season

One of my goals this year is to try to really thrive this winter. In Northern NY it’s cold and sometimes dreary (although it’s beautiful!) for almost 6 months out of the year, and almost every year seasonal depression hits me hard😅

I am adamant that this year will be different, so here are 10 things I’m focusing on and doing to help me thrive and not just survive the winter season❄️⬇️

1. Finding something active to do—cross country skiing has become this for me (and my husband), my husband plays hockey once a week, and we like to take family walks (when the snow isn’t too deep). Otherwise, we have a semi-finished basement with a treadmill for me and swings and ride-on toys for our kids to get energy out when it’s just too cold to go outside.

2. Eating/drinking warm and yummy food—soups, hot cocoa, crockpot meals, the occasional coffee, baked goods, and treats (also, my electrolyte drinks help me feel good even during the winter blahs).

3. Wearing cozy clothes—soft knits, cozy crewnecks, warm scarves, sherpas, and comfy hats. I love a cozy outfit so much and love to lean into that during the cold months.

4. Warming up by the fire—we started heating our home with a woodstove last year and it’s made our home so much cozier (not to mention it has helped us save SO MUCH $$ on heating bills—although it is an initial investment).

5. Working on indoor projects—working on home projects, painting rooms, and doing updates while we have a little bit of extra time and have to be mostly inside anyway is a great way to keep busy during the cold months.

6. Ambient lighting—I keep white lights up all winter long in my living room and kitchen. It makes it so cozy and I very much prefer to have them on at night rather than all the big lights. 

7. Investing in quality items to keep me warm and comfortable in the cold weather—a durable and warm coat, boots that I love to wear, and some hats, scarves, and mittens/gloves help keep me toasty while enjoying the beautiful outdoors. 

8. An outdoor hot tub—this is another thing we’ve added to our home in the last couple of years—it’s so nice to soak in the warm water and feel the brisk air. It’s also a nice way to spend time together as a family (I know we are really blessed to be able to have this and this is probably the most “unrealistic” thing on this list). 

9. Catching up on shows and movies—sometimes this is a family movie night to watch the Disney classics or newest family movie, and sometimes it’s just my husband and I watching a movie, comedy special, or SNL after our kiddos go to bed. 

10. Leaning into the hygge (coziness) of the season—I I try to really remember that winter is a season to slow down, to dress cozy, to pause, and to rest a little to prepare for the warm and busy months ahead.

✨Bonus: planning a trip somewhere warm—I haven’t been anywhere exciting during the cold months in over 6 years, but this year I’m lucky enough to have TWO trips planned to somewhere warm (one in March and one in May) to! 

I do think having those trips to look forward to will definitely to help get me through the cold months.

What do you do to stay thriving in the cold months?

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Outfits I’ve Loved Wearing So Far This Winter

I feel like I’ve found such a groove in getting dressed, in such a good way. I am loving the casual but put together feel that most of these outfits give off and I’m especially loving how they make me FEEL. There is nothing better than an outfit that makes you feel amazing and is still so comfy!

Here are 16 outfits I’ve worn over the last couple of months!

Everything I’m wearing is linked under each photo, and I’ve added similar finds for anything that’s older. These are affiliate links, so I may earn a small commission—thank you endlessly for supporting me, it truly means so much to me🧡

Loving this heavy green sweatshirt! The big buttons make it fun too!

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I’ve been enjoying these comfy pants —I’m wearing the petite length and they come in regular length too!

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These pants are my favorite new item of 2025! I’ve loveddd wearing them! Perfect for dressing up or down!

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I think this sweater sold out (🥲) but maybe it’ll restock?! It’s such a cute one and I’ve received so many compliments on it!

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Corduroy and pop of red? Yes please!

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I just love puffer vest season! And I really love a fun colorful scarf too!

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Can you tell this sherpa has been on repeat (based on my last post too?😝)

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Jumped on the little triangle scarf trend (reminds me of the scarves I used to wear in college!) and I think it’s too cute.

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Been wearing this sweat set TO DEATH. So cozy!

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A crewneck is my favorite “I don’t wanna think about what to wear” outfit!

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This sweater is so fun with all the colorful Pom Pom pieces in it!

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Green on green forever— another puffer vest look!

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These barrel pants have been such a favorite for years. They’re so comfy!

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A printed sweater makes an easy cute outfit.

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Another pair of jeans I’ve been loving—a super comfy straight leg pair.

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Comfy cozy outfit!

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17 Everyday Winter Outfits for Real Life

Sometimes I think we over complicate style—especially in the winter.

Throw on a cozy sweater, or a base with an easy layer (vests, cardigans, and puffers forever), and a good pair of jeans and you’re good!Occasionally I throw on a skirt or leggings and that’s obviously super comfy too. All that matters is that I feel like “me” and enjoy what I’m wearing.

These are some recent outfits I actually wore— nothing really fancy, just super comfortable, warm, and easy.

You can find everything I’m wearing linked under each photo, plus similar options if an item is older. These are affiliate links, so I may earn a small commission—thank you endlessly for the support 🤍 it means more than you know!

Loved how my sweater matched my cowboy boots in this outfit!

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My striped turtleneck is a piece I’ve had for years. I love wearing it alone (like this) or layered with a sweater or cardigan over it.

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I love this cozy sherpa! Perfect paired with jeans, leggings or sweatpants.

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This colorful speckled sweater is so fun. It’s still neutral but the colorful pom poms make it extra cute!

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Definitely bringing my barrel jeans into winter with me. I paired them here with a cozy fleece sweatshirt jacket.

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I felt like the prettiest rainbow in this cardigan!

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These jeans are my favorite item of 2025! Love the length, comfort and look of them!

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There’s absolutely nothing wrong with a simple and cozy look like this!

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A cute crewneck sweatshirt is a favorite!

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This sweater has been such a favorite! I’ve worn it so many ways 🥰

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This fair isle sweatshirt is something I wear year after year. So cozy and oversized.

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Love pairing a cozy sweater with a mini skirt (or in this case, a skort!)

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This coral color is so pretty. It’s so fun to pair with printed matching socks.

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Another outfit with this cozy Sherpa pullover! Love it with my brown leggings.

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We went to a hockey game and I wore the team’s colors (green and gold).

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Another way I’ve worn this sweater—paired with my barrel jeans and uggs!

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A cozy outfit! Love these wide leg sweatpants and a cozy fleece jacket.

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My Top 10 of 2025: book, song, purchase, recipe, album, etc.

At the end of each year, I typically do a round up of my favorite clothing items, my top sellers, and things like that, but this year I also wanted to add my top 10 favorites in a new way—I wanted to share some of my favorites from the past year that include my favorite album, the best book I read, my most listened to song, the yummiest recipe we ate, and more.

I thought it was a good way for you to get some fun tried and true recommendations and for me to share a little bit more about what I enjoy.

I’ve linked what I can in the post. These are affiliate links, so I might earn a small commission—thank you so much for supporting my blog—it really means the world!

📖 book: “Say You’ll Remember Me” by Abby Jimenez. It felt very realistic, was an easy read,  and I loved how sweet it was. 

✨ accessory: my natural stone bobble necklace from Shapes Studio. I’m pretty sure I added this to almost ALL of my outfits this summer. 

😋 recipe: broccoli cheddar soup. I made it several times and my whole family loved it! I added potatoes to it as well, and every time it was so yummy.

🎵 song: according to Spotify my top song of the year is Taylor Swift’s “Guilty as Sin”. It’s a good one, but I was pretty surprised it was my top one. I did listen to The Tortured Poets Department on repeat this year! 

📍place: Montreal, Canada—we visited for the first time to celebrate our 10 year anniversary and it was so fun to explore. 

🏀 show: Running Point with Kate Hudson on Netflix. Cute, funny, and quick!

💰 purchase: little green machine. I bought a cream couch this summer and this is the ONLY way I was able to do that while also having two little boys (who are always barefoot😅)

💿 album: Morgan Wallen’s “I’m the Problem”. When this came out I listened to it SO MUCH. We saw Morgan Wallen in concert in 2022 and it was SO fun (the picture I shared was from that concert)!

🤩 new piece of clothing: my black jeans from Quince. These are so versatile! The washed black color makes them work-appropriate but they’re such a soft and comfy denim that you’d never think you were wearing jeans!
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🎥 movie: Wicked 1 and 2. We didn’t jump on the Wicked bandwagon until this year (at Thanksgiving time) and we loved both of them. Fun fact: My husband and I both love musicals and the first time we held hands was at a high school musical.

Thanks so much for reading! Do we have any of the same favorites from this year?

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